Aphelele

Have you ever asked yourself why a majority of break-ups end up so sour? Like, these two people we inseparable and adoration seeped out their hearts for each other… But now? Now they can’t stand each other 😀

Perhaps the couple was happily dating for a few years and slap-bang the relationship was ended by one selfish act, which marked the beginning of hate 😑 Now if we keep it 100, the truth is this fall out probably could have been sorted out by a few calm-grown-people conversations and a bit of (winks) physical therapy 😘 But none of that happened because half of the couple acted like a small little baby πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’

Lol, I was trying hard not to end up ranting about my recent break-up experience, but like we’re here guys πŸ€·πŸΎβ€β™€οΈΒ Alright so I won’t get extremely explicit with the details but just know that I am not very keen on this relationship thing. Like, does it make sense to invest so much of your time and effort into something that ends up not yielding any benefit, whatsoever? Like πŸ€¦πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ

Okay, okay – I can’t deny the fact that when I was in this relationship and everything was going well it was definitely nice and I mean NICE 😍😍😍 Like this was a three-year-old relationship, so there definitely were a few challenges but love is stronger right? WRONG!! Some people are old babies who just don’t wanna deal with situations like the adults they look like they are πŸ˜’πŸ˜‚πŸ˜©

When all is said and done, I have re-learned the importance and beauty of striving to find the positive side of everything I go through. This relationship has provided many lessons, good times and great pictures🀳🏾 Honestly, if I could do it all again I most certainly wouldn’tΒ but we’ll just label it a #LessonLearned πŸ’―

Having said that, I’m single and ready to mingle – heeeeeey πŸ˜˜πŸ‘…Β LOL

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Yours in singleness,
Aphelele

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  1. Honestly I’ve been once too many times and I also don’t like this relationship thing yet I just need a little time to heal and get over everything else before I get into another relationship.

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