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We spend so much time looking at the greener garden of our neighbours that we forsake to water out own. Granted, we are not all where we had envisioned that we will be at this very point of our lives. Fine – things haven’t exactly worked according to our plan and we are nowhere near…

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Very often we spend so much time focusing on the things that aren’t going according to our intended plan and schedule and we overlook the many that are actually going right for us. Today I’d like to re-centre our attention on that which is good and nothing else. It’s paramount for us to learn to…

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What does it mean to be a womxn? Firstly, as a Black Radical Feminist, I use the word “womxn” rather than “woman” to veer away from the societal construct that defines womxn as an appendage, extension or variant of man, the construct that makes man the constant point of reference. So back to my question….

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Its official – Unrequited Love is my Spillion 🤦🏾‍♀️ It takes a lot of gumption and pure heart to be able to take the Ls and become a starring in the Unrequited Love game. It’s not for the weak and disheartened. It’s only for the dedicated L collectors and thoroughbred thugs such as yours truly…

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I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well – Psalm 139:14 I want you to imagine that I have placed three vessels in front of you with contents that are appropriate for each of them to carry. The first is a…

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I came across a certain picture that totally made sense to me, spoke volumes lucidly. A picture of paving bricks shaped and arranged in a specific consistent pattern, with another brick that is oddly shaped and out of place but placed awkwardly with the others. This illustration immediately jumped to me: how often do we…

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Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come into him and dine with him, and he with Me. Revelation 3:20 “God is a Gentleman, Gary! He stands at your heart’s door and knocks. You have to let Him in!” These were some of the…

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Very often we dont ask to be celebrated. Some of us never actually signed up for being your upstanding members of society and your typical role models. It is however very unfortunate that being a somewhat celebrated individual whom most people, young and old, look up to. It often puts one on an unrealistic pedestal…

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This morning I had a random inspiration as it was impressed upon my heart to tell those closest to me that I love and appreciate them… and so I did. I was never prepared for the shocking responses that met my declaration of love 😆 What puzzled me the most was their respective responses to…

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Isn’t it amazing how when you go through challenges in life you feel as though it’s the end of the road for you and you just wanna give up? You literally see your world collapsing from all angles and caving in on you. You haven’t lived if you haven’t been in that season. I have…