Author: Aphelele

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I have recently attended the unexpected funeral of a relative’s loved one and that’s when this truth dawned on me. This moment alone taught me so many little lessons that I guess are best taught/learned through life experiences. Simply put: 1) Love Wholeheartedly  The basic reason for this (and all the other points) is that…

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What you say and do to the next person, whether the behaviour is justified or not, says a mouthful about you as a person. Respect doesn’t necessarily have to be earned. I’d like to draw your attention to a rather important aspect of our human existence right across the spectrum. It seems as though the…

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South Africans recently celebrated our very own Human Rights Day 🎉 This day was set to commemorate the Sharpvile Massacre and to celebrate our heroes who fearlessly fought for the rights we ever so badly brag about now 🇿🇦 Having said that, my question to you is a very simple one… Okay, it’s not that…

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Here’s the thing, I don’t believe in “karma” per say but I do believe in the concept of you “you get what you give”. Correct me if I’m wrong, but karma has more to do with what you do to others coming back to you, right? I believe it goes beyond that. To me, it’s…

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After heartbreak, or after a loss – my goodness even after experiencing some sort of defeat or failure, things just aren’t ever the same again, are they?.. I would like to believe that I am a faithful bearer of hope, and that I do my best to always have a positive attitude and I find…

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With Valentines Day at our shores, I can’t help but ask these questions?..  Am I ready for Love?  Am I willing to allow yourself to be Loved? Am I aware of the amount of Love I am capable of spreading? Am I willing to put in the work required for love to work? Do I…

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[spacer height=”20px”] I am such a planner, yes I’m that avid to-do list maker 🙋🏾‍♀️ Having a set to-do list for every single day really helps me with keeping focused and also to get work done. Yet sometimes (majority of the time really) I find myself disappointed with myself, because I haven’t checked-off every item…

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[spacer height=”20px”] Happy New Year to you beautiful party people 🎉 You do know that I’ve got nothing but love for you, right? It is definitely not with a negative, grinch-like spirit that I write this blog post to you… [spacer height=”20px”] Can you tell what exactly it is about new things that bring new…

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To be or not to be? Should we trust an online store with our banking details?? Many have found online shopping to be so convenient, yet we can’t overlook the many online-money fraud stories we have also heard. With so many of our trusted department stores, such as Mr. Price, Pick ‘n Pay and Checkers,…

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[spacer height=”20px”] This is one diet I strongly believe in. As a matter of fact my friend always teases me about this 😒 “Aphelele doesn’t eat that…” – she’d start-off saying. “She’s blood type AB,” her closing remark is usually followed by a loud laugh 😣😒😧 Although it really should, this teasing doesn’t get to me….