Author: Aphelele

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The honest truth is that when we hear or experience something that is suddenly (and negatively) mood altering we have a somewhat difficult time trying to ‘control ourselves’. One lesson that life has taught me time and time again, is the importance of keeping my cool. Not just so I look cool, calm and collected,…

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Wow, I certainly never thought I would EVER refer to myself as a ‘Weight Watcher’ – not ever 🙅🏾‍♀️ Yet it was made apparent to me (ever so painfully) that I needed to make that oh so dreadful change 💪🏾 You see on the first day of this new year I looked at myself in…

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What a difficult question to answer… When I was younger I could very easily answer this question, but I’m finding that as I get older it ain’t so easy y’all! Well kinda… “What’s making it so hard to answer this?” is a constant thought on my mind ? The truth is there are many things…

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I can guess your reaction to this article’s title: ??LIES! My response: “Haters gon’ hate!”  So what? ? My response: “So-so suck your toes, all the way to MEXICO!!” Yaaas ??You go get it gurl! My response: “Yes, I will! You know you’re the bomb right?!” Let’s face it: we all live our lives differently….

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Have you ever been asked to make something for someone/attend or participate in an planned event and you weren’t sure about it… So you said yes just to save face? WHY? Why not just say “No, thank you.” Well I asked myself this haunting question and I could not produce an answer sufficient enough. Why…

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What is the one thing you hold most precious than most? That thing you wouldn’t trade for gold or diamonds? Still thinking? Well I know exactly what mine is, it’s peace. My pursuit for peace is an ongoing adventure. What do I define as peace? It’s stillness, silence, it’s room to breathe. Don’t get me…

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What is this called? A loss of hope, All hope. Gone. Utter despair, What is it called when a believer loses Faith? How do you refer to an optimist with a negative outlook? One minute I am building my dreams, Transforming them into an extraordinary reality The next minute, I realise the building was part…

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Mindfulness is one of the big and by far the most profound lessons that 2017 has taught me. Alright, I learned this one through psychology. I have learned about it being a quality of attention, awareness and presence you bring to everyday life. Mindfulness is about right here in this moment, without judging it and…

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I have compiled a list of ten of my absolute favourite 2017 women’s wear Fashion trends. I enjoy dressing up and looking good because I believe that if you look and feel good you are unstoppable! One other thing I also believe in very much is the embracing of our different body shapes and sizes…