Book review: 'We are the Ones We Need' by Sihle Bolani by Mpumz
May 23, 2019

Fool Me Twice, Shame On Me

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me three times, fuck the peace sign, load the chopper and let it rain on you… I don’t even know how many times I’ve played myself when it comes to a man but I know it’s way too many times. It’s not

May 21, 2019

Let’s Get Married!

I think we’ve warped the concept of marriage, it shouldn’t be so complicated. It’s a simple relationship. People shouldn’t need so much money to get married. Would it be so horrible not to have a big lavish wedding, or to not afford a home at get go, or even to have to use second-hand furniture

May 16, 2019

Book review: ‘We are the Ones We Need’ by Sihle Bolani

If you’ve ever wondered whether the rumours about white privilege in corporate South Africa are real. I suggest you pick up this book and formulate your opinion. As a black female professional working in the financial services sector, I’ve often wondered whether we build these theories up in our heads. This was until I discovered

May 13, 2019

Actions Have Consequences

You can’t cheat the process. For every action performed, there is as (and should) be a reaction equivalent to it. It is the natural progression of things.  Whatever you sow, you shall reap and you cannot escape it. This is a basic law of nature. It would be foolish of us to sow fruits and

May 7, 2019

The Bible Says So…

How many times have you ever been told this: “You can’t do (insert action), because the Bible says so?” Well, I have heard this (or something similar to it) too many times before 😣 Being the recipient of these words of conviction often gave me constant and overwhelming feelings of condemnation and would leave me